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How Journaling Can Be Good for Your Health

Wed, 05 Feb 2020 05:00:00 GMT

Journal writing can be cathartic. The practice of writing is not only good for the mind, but it may also actually have physical health benefits. Journal writing can strengthen people’s immune systems, lower depression, and ease anxiety. To keep a journal means there is a space to hold a person’s deepest thoughts, desires, and dreams. Sometimes people like to go back and re-read old journals to see where they were in a certain time of their life. Big events like marriage, having kids or losing a loved one can create a memorialization of that time period through writing. In this way, it promotes healing from traumatic experiences.

Why Writing is Healing

Writing helps people access parts of their brain that are not always used when typing on a computer or talking to friends. The left hemisphere of the brain lights up when people write. Writing removes mental blocks and allows individuals to use their brainpower to analyze their inner and outer worlds. Putting pen to paper is harder for some than others. Learn how to use the power of journal writing to share your thoughts and get positive, healing energy flowing.

Use the Pen Instead

Everyone seems to have a keyboard, smartphone, or tablet. In today’s modern world, everything is a touch screen and instant gratification. Hand-writing thoughts in a journal are more effective than writing on a laptop. Research supports the fact that writing stimulates an area of the brain that filters information. Cursive writing used to be taught in schools but gave way to tablet use in grades as early as preschool. Getting comfortable with a pen might take time, but it will be worth doing.

Set Limits

Don’t let yourself be bound by too many limits, but start with some boundaries upfront. A page limit often gives people something to strive for. If you struggle to fill white space, try setting a page or time limit. See what works best for you and make an effort to achieve a little bit of writing each day. A good way to get started is with 30-day writing challenges.

Keep it Private

Unless you are working with a private therapist, you likely are keeping the journal lying around the house. It is important to keep it private and secure for only your eyes. Find a safe spot to store it and make it secure enough nobody else can find it. This is not the space to feel judgment from others. Expressive writing is just for you.

The health benefits of writing are important. When someone has experienced trauma, past hurt, pain, or suffering, it is especially important to encourage writing down whatever comes to mind. It can be cathartic to write out the challenges you faced and also how you overcame them. Some people like to write a bout their faith, prayers, meditations, or other spiritually-based exercises as a way of processing. Other people like to write about future hopes, dreams, and goals or start penning a book. Whatever you decide, just get started. Work with a therapist, a coach, or a writing group who can encourage you to just simply write where you are, freely, without judgment.

Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Service is Columbus’ oldest African-American family-owned and operated mortuary. We understand family needs at one of the most difficult times of their lives. We help you put the pieces together and find a way to honor your loved one’s memory. Call us to find out how we can help you have the best experience possible while memorializing your loved one. Contact us: (614) 258-9549

Dealing with Grief and Loss During the Holidays

Mon, 23 Dec 2019 05:00:00 GMT

Walking through the holidays with grief and loss coming up for the first time, or first of many, is difficult for anybody. Coping with grief is not just making it through, it is about holding space for memories of the loved one when they were around to celebrate, and to honor their life, while still being present for the feelings of loss that emerge. No matter what holiday, the experience of losing a loved one, and celebrating the holidays, is difficult. Find some ways to manage expectations and remain open to what comes up so it is easier to deal with this time around.

Be Realistic

Being realistic is more than just being open. It is about thinking through the holidays differently with loss. It means looking back at the tasks, experiences, and moments of the holidays and wanting to know which to continue with and learning to accept help from people if this year will be particularly difficult. It might mean rearranging where and when and how to shop this year to avoid triggering memories of the loved one. Creating space to grieve a loss is as much about finding hope as it is about keeping their memory alive while being realistic about expectations.

Don’t Become Isolated

Isolation is a person’s worst enemy around the holidays. Sharing plans with others helps them feel included and part of the journey of grief. Memories can be comforting, not just distressing, for the bereaved. Share them by telling stories and looking at photo albums. In spite of the temptation, don’t seek to cancel all the holiday plans and not go anywhere or do anything that reminds everyone of that person. Grieve, but with purpose. Balance it with planned social activities to stay busy but leave room for quiet and rest as needed.

Give Back

Serving others and giving back is a positive way of practicing self-care in this difficult season. Try to avoid going full pace into the holidays. Even if that used to work, now may not be the right time. Offer permission to do fun things, be self-indulgent a little, but also give back to others and let that be an offering to others.

Self Care

Nothing is better around the hustle and bustle of holidays than self-care . This might look like quiet space to grieve, being with good friends, going out to movies, getting a manicure, going for a hike, taking a boxing class, or any number of things that help people when they are walking through grief. Writing in a journal can be a good outlet for people, along with artsy and crafty things. Offer permission to buy something that is fun just because or go to the spa and indulge. After all, this is self-care time that is going to give back more than it takes away (time or energy).

A big part of the holidays is tradition and ritual. It can be helpful to hold onto old traditions and rituals or find ways to release them and let them go. Create a memory box with notes from loved ones that are opened that time of year, light a candle in their memory, visit the cemetery, or find other means of celebrating their life. Let it all have meaning and find what works and what doesn’t. There is no right or wrong shape to create the holidays. Keep it simple but make it unique and something that feels right for right now. Next year it may look and feel different. For now, it is okay to feel all the feelings and know that in time it will get better, but it helps to plan ahead and find others to support the journey.

Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Service understands the challenge of loss around the holidays. There is never a timeline for death and no timeline for grief. We are here to help if you are struggling with how to best memorialize and celebrate your loved one’s life. Call us if you are ready to move forward with making preparations for a loved one’s celebration of life: (614) 258-9549

Healing Yourself from Grief and Loss

Wed, 18 Dec 2019 05:00:00 GMT

Everyone is going to experience grief and loss if they are human. Even dogs and other mammals have been found to grieve the loss of a loved family member or young one they birthed. The difference is the range of emotions humans experience with loss. There are many types of loss and grief from losing a job to divorce, separation, moving, and the biggest one: death. No two people will ever experience loss the same. Healing is a lifelong journey of learning how to cope with the rhythms of loss and look at grief as a process and a journey, rather than a destination at which to arrive when you are ‘done grieving.’

Support System

In times of great sorrow, pain, and loss, loved ones carry us through. Feeling alone, unable to move forward, and stuck are all valid things when it comes to grief and loss. Isolation is common because it is hard to go out and do things when grief is right there all the time. Quite often, loved ones who are not the closest to the loss don’t know what to say but loved ones inside the loss with everyone else can say hurtful things that are not helpful. Since every person grieves their own way, there is no ‘right way’ to do it. Support groups provide valuable space and opportunity to connect in the community with others who can understand and share the pain of loss openly without fear of judgment.

Staying Healthy

The last thing many people think about when they suffer a loss is their health. Quite often, it is the one thing people are most surprised goes downhill during a season of deep grief and loss is their health, whether it be weight loss (or gain) and other symptoms. Being healthy requires intentionality. Some things to keep in mind:

Professional Support

Not everyone believes professional support is the best route for grief. The truth is, grief takes on many forms and has many layers. When it is not dealt with, the layers pile up over time until it feels overwhelming. Early tragedy or loss compounded with trauma can cause mental health issues to the surface, which require professional attention. Clinical depression is different from grief and depressive symptoms. A person is likely to find with clinical depression:

Complicated grief is another challenge for people who may not know what to call what is happening in their mind and body. Grief goes on for an unfixed duration, but regular grief takes the person grieving on a journey of healing. Experiences with grief may find someone fixated on the loss, unable to move on, and are struggling to move past a loss even years later. There is hope and help for grief and loss recovery. Mental health professionals and counselors trained in grief recovery can often be the best pathway to healing as they can help identify the layers and see what steps may need to happen to move forward so the griever can find hope and joy again in life.

Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Service brings healing to families at a time of deep sorrow. Our goal is to bring families and loved ones together to celebrate the life of a beloved relative or friend. There is no one way to grieve. Let us help you honor your loved one. If you need help with services, please call us: (614) 258-9549

Making a Will to Protect Your Family and Assets

Wed, 11 Dec 2019 05:00:00 GMT

A will is a legal document that lets people decide how to divide up assets when they die. It is something many people use to distribute property like money, belongings, and valuables among families. They may also leave trusts or other things to those left behind. Personal guardians can also be named in wills for minor children and executors are often named to make sure the terms of the will are carried out. Creation of a will has become easier with the advent of the internet but making a will that is binding after death takes careful consideration of what goes in it and how to distribute property and assets appropriately to avoid conflict after a person dies. Learn more about how to make a will that protects assets and family from legal challenges later.

Dying Without a Will

When someone passes without a will, their property will be distributed in what is called an ‘intestacy’ or laws of intestacy. In Ohio specifically, this means property goes to closest living relatives, beginning with any spouses, followed by minor children, then siblings, and so on. Grandchildren may also benefit or parents. Distant relatives, grandparents, aunts, and uncles may benefit if there are not any of the preceding relatives to give property to in the event someone dies. Without living relatives, the state will take property and keep it for themselves.

Creating a Will

It has never been easier to access how to make a will. With online platforms like Nolo, people can easily do-it-yourself with software and free online programs. Consulting a lawyer may be helpful for more complex estates, property, or business interests. If someone wants to disinherit people and make sure they get nothing, they should speak with a lawyer. Be aware this is quite costly, in the hundreds of dollars per hour, but some may charge a flat rate to produce a simple document. More complex ones may require additional support. Some of the requirements to sign a will may include:

Changing a Will

Revocation or changing of a will is not something to be taken lightly. Tearing up, canceling, or destroying it will make it null and void. Without having a will, it can end up in probate, costing a lot of money in legal fees to deal with before the estate clears. Some people make a will to change their old one and revise it to the new people and things they wanted in the will. If divorce happens, or separation, there are laws that can shift depending on the state, but the spouse from the separation cannot be left the property or named an executor. To make changes properly, it helps to consult a lawyer, but if there is something simple to change, a codicil works just fine. This is like an addendum to the will.

Writing up a will may not seem complex for many people, but the act of doing it represents a facet of life many would rather not face. It means owning the fact that things are temporal and can shift at any given time including serious health issues or life-threatening illness or injury. While incapacitated, people cannot create wills. However, they can do it while they are of sound mind and able to decide how they want to distribute their property to their liking. It is in the best interest of that person and their loved ones to have something written to support their wishes in the end.

Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Service is Columbus’ oldest African-American family-owned and operated mortuary. Our goal is to serve your family when they need it most. Grief is a difficult process but we hope to make it easier by finding the right solutions to your concerns about burying your loved one with dignity and celebrating their life. If you need help with services, please call us: (614) 258-9549

Save Money with Cremation Pre-Planning

Mon, 09 Dec 2019 05:00:00 GMT

One of the hardest conversations to have with yourself and your loved ones is planning for a funeral . It is not a topic that is easy to discuss because there are lots of options to consider. Some people will be open to discussing it and know exactly what they want. Others are hesitant or not ready to discuss plans and this makes it harder to pre-plan for end-of-life services. Families benefit when a loved one can prepare in advance so there is no question they are receiving the services they desire in the end, while also saving money in the long-run. Find out why cremation pre-planning can help save money.

Pre-Planning Saves Money

Although people are not always willing to pre-plan for their funeral, most have some idea of what they want or don’t want. It is a matter of getting it in writing and noting their preferences that can be a challenge. The financial benefits of making this decision may include:

Full cremation services afforded to people often come at a lower cost than traditional burial services. Knowing how to plan and prepare offers a better outcome for everyone involved that is left to grieve in the wake of loss.

Service Planning

Cremation services that are planned ahead can allow room for lots of different options. People may not realize that cremation does not mean a service cannot take place. The opposite is actually true. With pre-planning, you get to decide what feels right, whether it is a traditional service before a cremation or after. If the remains are buried in a cemetery plot, you may wish to do a graveside ceremony. Spending time pondering it now can provide peace of mind for everyone when the time comes.

Considerations for Family

One of the harder parts of planning ahead for funerals is knowing you will not be around. The planning is for the family left behind once you are gone to help them organize and create a memorial for everyone to celebrate together. Although they are tough decisions, the choices are yours to make about what will be best and most financially feasible. As decisions get made, the actual costs can become known, which may vary somewhat from place to place but will likely remain static no matter what funeral home is chosen. Choosing to pay now can save money later and bring peace of mind to those left behind to mourn. Pre-planning is a great step towards organizing all the logistics now so it will not have to be done later.

The realities of end-of-life planning can become overwhelming. Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Service is here to come alongside you as those decisions are made in the pre-planning stages. If you or a loved one want to pre-plan for cremation or burial services, or need help with planning a memorial, call us: (614) 258-9549

Coping With a Loss During the Holidays

Wed, 27 Nov 2019 05:00:00 GMT

Spending time with those you love most is what the holidays are all about. While gathering around the table for Thanksgiving, carrying on yearly traditions, or drinking hot chocolate while enjoying family movie night, you may find yourself feeling still grieving the loss of a loved one. There is no right way to grieve. It’s not an orderly process, as every person and every family grieves differently. It’s important to remember that it’s okay to feel these emotions, and it’s natural to experience them all over again during the holidays. Use this as a time to learn how to cope with a loss during the holidays in a healthy manner. Consider practicing these strategies this holiday season.

Start a new tradition

What is one tradition your family does every year? Perhaps it’s gathering in the kitchen and everyone making their own pie, or seeing a movie the day after Christmas. Whatever your yearly holiday tradition is, consider making a new one! Of course, you can still keep your old traditions, but adding something new will help you feel enlightened and thankful.

Express your needs

Family members who are still grieving may find it difficult in participating in family functions. It’s common for those grieving to seclude themselves in isolation. Remember, it’s perfectly fine to take a day to yourself if you are feeling too much to participate in a holiday tradition. Express this to family members, but remember to still allow their support and love to shine through.

Volunteer in your community

Participating in community service or volunteering may help boost your mood. Research local charitable or religious organizations that are seeking help. This could be a homeless shelter or local food bank. Or, consider making a donation to an organization your deceased loved one has always cherished.

Diehl-Whittaker funeral services in Columbus, Ohio makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford. Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.

How to File an Official Death Certificate

Wed, 27 Nov 2019 05:00:00 GMT

Following the death of a loved one, you may find it difficult to properly cope. Everyone experiences the impact of death differently. Start by finding healthy ways to cope, whether this includes seeking a grief counselor or being proactive with self-care. Although a loss will impact you on a deep, emotional level, there are steps that you will need to legally take care of, including filing an official death certificate. Learn how to correctly file an official death certificate.

Filing an Official Death Certificate

A death certificate usually costs between $40-$50, and depending on the state you reside in, must be filed within 10 days following the death. It’s important to follow each step carefully to ensure everything is correctly documented.

Main Step: Contact the Funeral Home

The first step to filing an official death certificate is to contact the funeral home that is overseeing the funeral services. Information you will need to give the funeral home includes:

Ask for Copies of Official Death Certificate

Although this information is securely filed in the funeral home, it’s never a bad thing to ask for copies of the paperwork. Death certificates are often needed for insurance purposes, settling estate, or other legal duties.

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Honoring Catholic Funeral and Burial Traditions

Wed, 27 Nov 2019 05:00:00 GMT

A catholic funeral service is a time to pay respect to family members and the deceased, along with trusting they are in God’s hands. A number of specifics go into planning a catholic funeral service, as they also include beautiful rituals and traditions. To receive a traditional catholic funeral, one must be confirmed and baptised as Catholic. However, exceptions can be made for those who were Catholics in training, and children who were not yet baptised but whose parents had plans for them to be.

Recognizing Catholic Funeral Traditions

Catholic Funeral Wake

Many factors go into a catholic funeral service, from planning the burial, to scheduling the mass and wake that follows. Prior to the funeral, many include a vigil or a wake for the deceased. These services typically take place the evening before the funeral, or the morning of the service. This is a time for family members and close friends to say their goodbyes to the deceased, along with showing respect for the survivors.

Catholic Funeral Mass

Almost all catholic funerals include a mass service, where the priest will provide a special time of worship for the loving departed. These prayers are used to ask God for a safe passage into the afterlife. This is also a time where the priest, along with three family members, offer readings of pre-selected passages from the Bible. During this mass, holy water is sprinkled onto the casket of the departed. While holy water rests on the casket, it’s common to also place a pall on the casket with an entry possession while singing songs of farewell.

Catholic Burial Traditions

Following the completion of mass, friends and family members will then be escorted to the location of the burial. Once on site, the priest will share prayers that are related to the Catholic burial ritual , such as committing the soul to God.

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Collecting Veterans Benefits after a Death Occurs

Wed, 20 Nov 2019 05:00:00 GMT

Family members may find it difficult to think clearly after losing a loved one. Daily tasks may get pushed aside as the grieving process begins. Remember to take time for yourself while accepting love and support from friends and family to get through this difficult chapter in life. Experiencing the death of a loved one is never easy, but it’s important to make sure surviving family members review paperwork to see if they qualify for any benefits left behind, including veteran benefits . Most family members of a veteran are not entitled to monetary benefits, however there are a few incidences where one may qualify.

Dependency and Indemnity Compensation Benefits

A surviving spouse of a verteran, along with children under the age of 18, may be entitled to compensation payments. Factors that play into this include:

Wartime Service Pension

If the deceased veteran’s spouse or single child makes below a certain income, they may qualify for pension following the death. For this to be implemented, the veteran must have either been discharged from service due to dishonorable conditions, or served at least 90 days of active duty with one day during war time.

Burial Allowance

Given the circumstances, survivors of a veteran may receive a reimbursement for the veteran’s funeral cost. Family members often receive burial allowance if:

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Holidays and Festivals for Honoring the Deceased

Mon, 28 Oct 2019 04:00:00 GMT

October is a wonderful month as the leaves show us the beautiful gift letting go. With the change of season also comes fun holidays, as Halloween is just around the corner. From carving pumpkins to dressing up in costumes, the month of October comes with a number of memorable activities. But, in the midst of eating candy and enjoying the moodiness of October, have you considered the holidays and festivals around the world that honor the deceased?

Bon Festival - Japan

The Bon Festival has been celebrated the past 500 years in Japan, honoring and remembering dead ancestors. It begins each year on August 15th, and lasts three full days consisting of fireworks, games, feasts, and dances to welcome spirits. It is rarely a solemn time, as this festival is about joyfulness and remembering the dead.

Chuseok - South Korea

Chuseok is a large, three day festival in South Korea celebrating an abundant harvest thanks to the dead ancestors. On the first day of the festival, Koreans go back to their roots of their ancestory home to perform early morning rituals. The remaining of the day is spent with feasting and cleaning the tombs of dead ancestors. The three days are celebrated by paying respect to those who have passed.

Gaijatra - Nepal

Gaijatra, known as the Festival of the Cows, is an 8 day celebration in Nepal. The celebration consists of marching cows through town, where the cows are only led by those who have lost a family member in the past year. But, why cows? This animal is considered holy in Hinduism, as cows are thought to guide the deceased to the afterlife.

Qingming Festival - China

Also known as Ancestors Day, the Qingming Festival is a Chinese National Holiday where families visit the tomb of their ancestors. During the visit, family members will give the tomb a good scrub and clean, leaving it in tip-top shape. Once the tomb has been cleaned, family members will do offerings of food and tea, which are thought to be valuable to the afterlife.

El Día de los Muerto (Day of the Dead) - Mexico

Perhaps the most common on the list, the Day of the Dead can often be associated with large smiling, colorful skulls. It is a national holiday in Mexico, but also known in countries such as the United States and the Philippines. The Day of the Dead is observed on November 1st and 2nd, and is a large celebration of the deceased . Attendees wear masks as they dance and feast in the streets.

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What to Do After the Funeral

Mon, 21 Oct 2019 04:00:00 GMT

After a funeral, grieving family members often ask, “Now what? What is supposed to have next in life?” Once the funeral service and celebration of life is over, things start to settle down and become quiet again as the reality of your loved one’s death is still present. This is a difficult time where emotions are raw. But, it’s important to make an effort to take care of yourself spiritually, mentally, and emotionally during the transition into life again. During the first couple weeks following the funeral, spend time completing the death paperwork while practicing self-care.

Death Paperwork to Have in Place

It’s easy to feel so overwhelmed with sadness and stress that we find ourselves avoiding important tasks. Set aside a couple hours to get organized, located the following documents and organizing them in folders.

10 Things to Do After the Documents are Organized

Write Everything Down.

Consider purchasing a notebook to make note of every important conversation. Write down the date and time of business phone calls, along with the name of the person you talked to.

Request Copies of Death Certificate.

You will need multiple copies of the death certificate. This can be available by speaking with the funeral director to determine the amount of copies you will need.

Did the Decedent Have a Will?

Following the funeral, check to see if the deceased had a will. You may be required to contact the power of attorney.

Get Mail Redirected.

If your loved one lived alone, be sure to get their mail redirected to a family member’s address. Stop by your local postal service or visit their website to submit a change of address.

Contact Employer.

If still employed, contact their employer to make them aware of the death.

Contact Health Insurance.

Don’t forget to stop the health care insurance the deceased was using. You may be provided to share legal documentation to prove the death.

Pay Any Straggling Bills.

Some have their bills automatically withdrawn from their account monthly. Be sure to check the bills have been paid until utilities can be shut off.

Close Credit Card Accounts.

When closing credit card accounts, be prepared to show a certified copy of the death certificate.

Contact Life Insurance Policies.

Check with the deceased's life insurance company to be sure beneficiaries have been contacted. File a claim with the insurance making them aware of the death.

Close Bank Accounts.

Depending on your relationship to the deceased’s, contact their bank account to close all checkings and savings accounts.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning forms

Common Myths About Planning a Funeral

Fri, 11 Oct 2019 04:00:00 GMT

More and more individuals are including pre-planning their funeral while gathering their wills and estate plans. Funerals are often something most people do not like to consider until life circumstances forces them to do so. The caregivers of Diehl-Whittaker funeral home highly advise pre-planning your funeral, as there are a number of benefits that follow. Don’t let the common myths about planning a funeral make you feel hesitant. There are many families that can benefit from the financial and emotional security that pre-planning a funeral brings.

Myth: Death is too difficult to talk about.

Many avoid the topic of death. It’s assumed the topic is too difficult to discuss. However, planning a funeral can bring the family a sense of peace. When a funeral is pre-planned, every detail and financial aspect is handled in advance.

Following the death, family members will have time to grieve and share support without the emotional stress of arranging a funeral. Gather loved ones to determine a time to have this important discussion. Start the conversation by stating the importance of pre-planning a funeral, such as making things easier for the entire family in the future as they respect your wishes.

Myth: Why talk about death when it’s so far away?

Unfortunately, we never know when death will occur. Discussing funeral arrangements with death is present is much more challenging, as thoughts are not processed clearly. Mentioning the subject of death earlier in life makes the conversation easier and not as heavy, as there is still distance from the reality of death. Plus, talking about death earlier in life mentally prepares the family. This means the funeral service can turn into a celebration of life rather than an event of mourning.

Myth: There’s no need to pre-plan a funeral if I’m financially secure.

Although financial aspects are an important part of pre-planning a funeral, which saves family members the stress of finding funds, cost isn’t the only factor. Arranging a funeral in advance ensures all final wishes are met. This means having the opportunity to choose your preferred funeral service, such as burial or cremation, the type of casket, and any other desires you wish to include.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford. Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.

Collecting a Life Insurance Policy when Death Occurs

Thu, 03 Oct 2019 04:00:00 GMT

The sadness and grief that comes along with death can often overshadow loose ends that still remain, such as dealing with financial and legal factors of the survivors. It’s common for important matters to get pushed to the side during the grieving process. Although it may feel difficult to prioritize these business matters, the decedent's final wishes bring a sense of responsibility in ensuring they carried out in a timely manner. When you are a beneficiary, learn how to collect life insurance policy when death has occurred.

Why Claim Life Insurance Benefits?

Claiming benefits from a life insurance policy provides the survivor with funds after the family member’s death. These funds can be used to help pay for the funeral service , to maintain a high quality of life, or to tie up the deceased affairs. One must be titled as the beneficiary to receive more information on the life insurance policy. The beneficiary should begin the process of collecting life insurance as soon as possible after the death.

How to start the process of claiming a life insurance policy:

Let the Insurance Company Know

Although this seems obvious, it’s important to let the insurance company where the deceased held the policy know about the death as soon as possible. When contacting the insurance company, you will need to have these documents:

Complete a Claim

In some cases, the insurance provider may have you complete a claim or fill out additional forms to protect against insurance fraud.

Claiming Life Insurance Benefits

Claiming life insurance benefits is not as complex as it may seem. If the decedent owes any amount of debt, the beneficiary is required to use the insurance money to pay off the amount owed. If you find yourself confused on the policy, speak with the life insurance provider to understand the policy amount and details that follow.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.

A Guide to Pre-Planning Your Funeral

Fri, 27 Sep 2019 04:00:00 GMT

We often can’t help but to think ahead in life. Most find themselves planning their next family adventure, career path, and their next home. But, what about pre-planning your funeral ? Funerals and death are not something most people often like to consider until time forces them to do so. Pre-planning your funeral is highly advised, and we are proud to offer this funeral service at Diehl-Whittaker Funeral. The caring staff of Diehl-Whittaker has created a guide to pre-planning your funeral, ensuring you fully understand the benefits and actions of this funeral service.

Considerations When Pre-Planning Your Funeral

Step 1: Choose Between Burial or Cremation

When pre-planning your funeral , you are in control of making every little decision. If selecting the burial funeral service, you can then choose the color and style of your casket. If making the decision for cremation, you and your family can then discuss your wishes for the location of the urn. We offer a number of burial packages and cremation services at Diehl-Whittaker Funeral, allowing you to choose the best option that suits your desires.

Step 2: Choose the Type of Funeral Service

There are many reasons you should consider having a funeral service, as this is a chance for family members to say their final goodbyes. Other options include a memorial service, often times when cremation is chosen and the ashes are present. A celebration of life is another popular funeral service option.

Step 3: Cemetery

If choosing for a burial service, now is the time to indicate the cemetary you wish to be buried, and the plot you have purchased.

What Are the Benefits of Pre-Planning?

There are a few beneficial reasons that follow from pre-planning a funeral. Some may feel the need to plan ahead to ease the worry and stress of family members. Others may prefer strict desires regarding the funeral service, such as the style of their casket and funeral service set up. Pre-planning a funeral also ensure there are adequate funds to cover the service.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford. Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning forms.

Tips on Staying Positive During Hard Times

Wed, 18 Sep 2019 04:00:00 GMT

Whether you have lost a parent, grandparent, close friend or other relative you deeply card about, it’s never easy to lose a loved one. Everyone experiences grief differently, and there is no right or wrong way to process death. However, when you discover a positive way to handle grief, you may be surprised by how much your perspective will change. Positive emotions will help you move forward with the healing of the grieving process. Here are a few tips on staying positive during the hard times.

Express Gratitude

Although it may feel difficult in times of struggle, it’s important to recognize the positive things happening around you and expressing gratitude. Take little moments throughout the day to remind yourself of the blessings that surround you and sharing them with family members. Acknowledging the positivity in your life will help make you feel calm and grounded. It’s important to note that expressing gratitude is not about ignoring life’s current issues and problems, but rather accepting the challenges life can bring and becoming more grateful along the way.

Surround Yourself With a Support Group

When families experience the death of a loved one , most insinctly express endless love and support to their relatives. It’s important to let those who offer support in rather than isolating yourself. Although family offers a great deal of support, some may desire a support system from a third party. If seeking support outside of family, consider researching a licensed grief counselor. Weekly support groups with like-minded people is also a consideration, and allows you to connect with others who are experiencing similar situations.

Take Care of Yourself

Grief hits everyone differently. Some may experience restless nights with little sleep, not having an appetite to eat, or the desire to isolate from friends and family. Throughout each stage of grief, it’s crucial you find the time to take care of yourself. Simple ways you can do this include:

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The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford. Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning forms.

Collecting Social Security Benefits after a Death Occurs

Thu, 12 Sep 2019 04:00:00 GMT

In most cases, your funeral director will report the death to the Social Security Administration (SSA) as a part of their funeral services. At Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Home, it is our highest priority to ensure your funeral process is smooth with minimal stress. We will assist your family in completing these services to allow you and your loved ones time to grieve and comfort. It’s important to understand the steps of collecting Social Security benefits after a death occurs to ensure the deceased’s financial aspects are handled properly.

Contacting Social Security

In the case of needed to contact the Social Security administration yourself, you can do so by calling 800-772-1213 or contacting your Social Security office.

Who Qualifies for a Social Security Death Benefit

When an individual with Social Security benefits passes away, social security may pay out two different types of benefits to the surviving spouse or child. These two payments include either a lump sum death benefit of $255 and/or an ongoing monthly payment death benefit called a survivor benefit. Essentially, when the death of someone who was receiving Social Security passes away, a one time payment of $255 will be given to the surviving spouse who was living with the deceased. If there is no surviving spouse, a dependent child can receive a one time lump sum of $255.

Ongoing Monthly Payments

Often times, monthly survivor benefits are paid to widows, widowers, dependents, or minor children. Here are a few guidelines for ongoing monthly payments of descendents social security:

If you have questions regarding collecting social security benefits after a death occurs, you can learn more on the survivors planner page on the Social Security website.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford. Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning forms.

Our 5 Favorite Inspirational Bible Verses

Thu, 05 Sep 2019 04:00:00 GMT

The team at Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Services makes it a mission to offer your family endless support and care during the hard times in life. We have gathered our favorite inspirational Bible verses to share with those who need a kind reminder of faith and strength. The themes from these verses express finding strength in the emotional hardship, growing in faith and trusting the Lord. May these Bible verses encourage you and give you hope for a beautiful future.

Jeremiah 29:11

11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

Philippians 4:13

13 I can do all this through him who gives me strength.

Isaiah 41:10

10 So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Isaiah 40:31

31 but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.

Joshua 1:9

9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.

Whatever challenges you may be going through, understand the Lord is guiding you through every step.

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Moving Forward After the Death of a Family Member

Wed, 28 Aug 2019 04:00:00 GMT

The death of a spouse, or any family member, can be one of the hardest life experiences you may go through. It may feel like the grieving process will never end - but like the many others who have traveled that road before you, it will get easier with time.

Take time to learn how you grieve and understand the steps you can take to find comfort in the sadness. By doing so, you will soon remember how to take care of your mind and body again. However, you may not know where to begin to start moving forward after the death of a family member. Keep your faith strong and motivation high with these tips on continuing life after experiencing a death.

Philippians 4:13

I can do all things through him who strengthens me.

Acknowledge the Reality of the Loss

It is important to attend the funeral service of your loved one . This is an opportunity to receive support and condolences from friends and family members, while also coming to terms and accepting the death. It’s healthy to openly discuss the deceased rather than acting as though they never existed. Remember to hold onto faith and hope during this time, as the Lord is always with you.

Openly Experience the Grieving Process

Do not bypass the stages of grief, as this is crucial to your healing process. Unfortunately, the only way to overcome grief is to go through it. There are a number of factors you can do to help the grieving process, such as reaching out to loved ones, professional help, picking up a new interest, or finding a support group. When you openly experience the grieving process , you will be on the path to healing and moving forward in life.

Find New Routines

Perhaps one of the hardest parts of loss is adjusting to their absence. This may include daily routines, which may need to be revised for healing purposes. Take time to discover new interests that offer comfort. This could include getting a pet for love and emotional support, or simple tasks such as practicing yoga every morning. Finding new routines will encourage a fresh outlook during this difficult time.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

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The Importance of Holding a Funeral Service

Wed, 21 Aug 2019 04:00:00 GMT

When experiencing the death of someone you love, holding a funeral service in their honor allows you to fill several important needs for yourself and for your family. Funerals help us to acknowledge and accept that someone we love has passed, while allowing us to say our goodbyes. Today, many experts agree that friends and family members benefit greatly from holding a funeral service. It’s never easy to experience the death of someone you care about, but surrounding yourself with the right support and guidance will help you and your family get through this difficult time.

The caregivers at Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Service make it a priority to provide your family with compassionate service as we remember and celebrate those who have passed on. Understanding the importance of holding a funeral service will allow the healing process to begin.

A Memorial Service Will Help You

A funeral service devotes tribute to honor the person’s life. Along with honoring, it helps family members acknowledge the death and seek support within each other during this emotional time.

A memorial service helps friends and family come to terms with the reality of death. Sometimes the funeral is when it truly feels real that the person is gone. This is the first step towards starting the grieving process.

A funeral allows friends and family members to join together and express the shared love they had for the person. Support is offered among the attendees and can bring a sense of hope and togetherness for those left behind.

Hosting a funeral service for your loved one is a chance to say your final goodbye. This closure is something many seek and need to continue the grieving process. This is an opportunity to express beliefs and feelings.

A Time for Celebration

Hosting a homegoing or funeral service is an opportunity to celebrate the life lived and remembering the positive impact they left on Earth. Take this time to rejoice their life, sharing uplifting memories and stories with those who remain. Hosting a homegoing is a chance to offer prayers of comfort, sing their favorite hymns, and express condolences and support to survivors. Take advantage of a funeral service to remember the best memories.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning forms.

Celebrating the Birthday of a Loved One Who Has Passed

Thu, 15 Aug 2019 04:00:00 GMT

Birthdays are often a day spent celebrating another year of life with those close to you. For a moment typically filled with happiness, it’s never easy to think of the day this person will no longer be there to celebrate. But, how do you celebrate the birthday of a loved one who has passed? Many people wonder how they can memorialize their loved one on their special day, especially without dredging up difficult feelings. Explore these ideas for remembering the happy times and honoring your loved one on their birthday.

Gather Friends and Family

The idea of celebrating the birthday of someone who has passed may seem odd to some, but for others it is a way to bring friends and family close together on this recognizable day and remember the departed in a positive way. Gather those who were close and host a big, small, intimate, or elaborate party...there are no rules! If your loved one was known for hosting weekend barbecues or football parties, consider having a cookout in honor of their birthday. This is a day devoted to remembrance and celebration.

Cook Their Favorite Food

Another option for celebrating the birthday of a loved one who has passed is to invite family over and enjoy their favorite meal. Perhaps they loved Sunday dinners with homemade chicken and noodle soup. Making this dish in honor of them on their is a great way for your family to celebrate.

Share Memories and Favorite Moments

It’s natural to feel a heavy heart surrounding the days of a passed loved one’s birthday. Asking friends and family members to share their favorite memory will bring up forgotten stories and allow everyone to share laughs. Review family photos and videos to chuckle at times gone by. Don’t rule out all possibilities of having moments of laughter when celebrating and remembering your loved one. It’s okay to set aside time for sadness, but don’t forget to leave room for joy. This is a special day and it should be celebrated!

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford. Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning forms.

Advice for Families on Finding Comfort While Grieving

Wed, 07 Aug 2019 04:00:00 GMT

Whether it was an unexpected death or a result of illness, we all experience different levels of grief when a family member or close friend passes. It’s natural to go through a wave of emotions feeling hints of sadness, denial, resentment, and acceptance all at once. There is no ‘right’ way to go through the grieving process. However, there are a few approaches that can help you find comfort while grieving your loss.

Connect With Others

It’s common while grieving for some folks to disconnect from friends and family members who offer support. No matter how strongly you feel the urge to dissociate, it’s important to connect with others and share the process in order to find relief from the loneliness of grief. Make it a point to keep yourself open to the love and support that family members are offering you, but don’t be afraid to seek extra support through a third-party. There a number of support groups with individuals who are facing the same life experience as you. Connecting with others who are familiar with the loss you are feeling can often provide comfort during your grief and help you make sense of the change.

Explore Your Interests

Remember to take time for your sadness and allow yourself to truly feel your emotions. These emotions help with the healing process, but don’t let them fully engulf your life any longer than needed. Consider slowly exploring your interests again to engage in life. If it’s too painful to tackle your interests shared with your loved one, try finding a new and exciting hobby, anything to give you something new to do. Developing new interests are a great way to give your mind a rest and distract yourself. There are many activities to try, such as:

Consider Counseling

Many find comfort in seeing a professional grief counselor or other licensed mental health professional. Wondering if you would benefit from a grief counselor? This is a great coping mechanism for those who are struggling with intense emotions who find it difficult to cope with the loss. If seeking professional help in-person does not spark your interest, consider exploring online counseling options.

Conversations with a pastor or religious leader are another form of counseling that can provide you and your family with a deeper understanding, and ultimately acceptance. Many churches host support groups for grief as well, bringing the congregation together to support those who have said goodbye to loved ones.

Take Care of Yourself

Through all of the funeral arrangements, emotions, and outside support, it’s important to take care of yourself along the way. Comforting yourself can be one of the most nourishing ways of managing grief. A few simple ways you can do this are:

When we’re wrapped up in our feelings, we can sometimes neglect our own health and wellbeing. Be sure to take good care of yourself and take the time you need to process your feelings. Saying goodbye is a sad necessity of this life, but we all deal with it differently, and each of us deserves however much time we need to process.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning forms.

Funeral Service Traditions From Around the World

Wed, 10 Jul 2019 04:00:00 GMT

When thinking about a funeral service, we often share the same idealization of friends and relatives sharing a seat in the church pew while the preacher recites prayers, sharing tears and memories throughout the service.

At Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Services, we view the homegoing as a celebration of life and a return home to our Creator. This is a time where friends and family rejoice in the life the deceased’s impact on the world and celebrate their soul going home to be with the Lord. Culture greatly influences funeral practices where each reflects their values and beliefs. Explore funeral service traditions from around the world and learn how others view death.

Jazzy New Orleans Funeral

Funerals in New Orleans leave a memorable impression where those who are grieving their loved one are led by a boisterous marching band. A band will play songs of grief as family members lay the body to rest, followed by joyful songs towards the end of the service. Cathartic dancing, an experience where individuals release emotions and seek purification, is part of the funeral service tradition to show respect to the life lost.

Burial Beads in South Korea

Traditionally, Korean culture was known for keeping the descendents body at home for three to seven days, depending on the season. When it was time for the funeral service, close family members would move the casket from the house to the cemetery, as they believed the house doorway was the line between the living world and the afterlife. In modern times, a funeral home in South Korea now fully prepares the body. However, a law was passed in year 2000 for bodies to be removed from their grave after 60 years due to lack of space. Because of this, most families opt for cremation services where the ashes are pressed into colorful jewelry-like beads that are kept in an urn.

African Fantasy Coffins

In Ghana, Africa, people wish to be buried in a casket that reflects their lifestyle, work, or something they were passionate about. Examples of this include a casket shaped as a Bible for someone who attended church and a casket designed as a fish for a fisherman. These caskets are designed with precision and care, as this reflects who their loved one was and their personality. It’s a significant part of the tribute made by friends and family to make sure the casket is a proper vehicle for going home.

No matter how your family wants to mourn the loss of a loved or celebrate the life lived, Diehl-Whittaker understands the need for unique and special ceremonies to say goodbye. Come in and talk with us to pre-plan your services and discuss the perfect ceremony for your family.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford. Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.

How to Talk to Loved Ones About Your Final Wishes

Wed, 10 Jul 2019 04:00:00 GMT

It can be difficult for families to discuss the topic of death. Although it may bring a wave of emotions, having a conversation about death and your final wishes should be had with those close to you. Family members should be prepared on how to handle your arrangements and know what to expect when the time comes. This will ease the stress and worry off your family during an already difficult time. Here are some tips on how to talk to loved ones about your final wishes, ensuring your funeral arrangements go smoothly and worry-free.

Make Family Members Aware of Your Plan

The conversation of death is emotional for all parties involved. It’s important to hold this discussion in a comfortable environment with only close family members. These are the ones who will hold the legal responsibility for maintaining your estate and after-life care. If you have pre-planned your funeral, be sure your family members are aware of the funeral home and wishes you made. Pre-planning with a funeral home allows you to personally make the decisions, from choosing your burial service, casket, and any other decisions. This takes the bourdan off family members and allows them to grieve when the time comes.

If you do want to pre-plan , be sure your family has a clear understanding of your funeral services wishes. At Diehl-Whittaker funeral services, we offer burial and cremation services, allowing you to choose your preferred funeral.

Let Family Members Know Where to Find Documents

Be sure to let family members know where important documents are stored for easy access. This includes deeds, titles, and other necessary forms they will need. Making family members aware of where to find this information will save them time and worry of searching.

Final Key Points

Remember, this will be a challenging and emotional time for your family. Make it a point to be clear and transparent as possible. Here are some key points to remember when talking to family members about your final wishes:

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The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

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Benefits of Working with a Family-owned Funeral Home

Wed, 10 Jul 2019 04:00:00 GMT

Choosing a funeral home is a deeply personal decision. You want a funeral director who devotes their time to your family with no distractions, ensuring every little detail is perfect. When searching for a funeral home in Columbus, Ohio, you will find a number of establishments which may begin to feel overwhelming when selecting one best suited for your needs. How is one to choose? While it's good to have a broad choice, keep in mind the benefits of working with a family-owned funeral home. At Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Services , our professional staff assures your family will be provided the compassionate care you deserve.

Professional Services with a Personal Touch

The determination and ability to add a personal touch to your family’s funeral service is unmatched when comparing family-owned businesses to large corporations. Our staff focuses on providing our clients with customized funeral services , making your memorable service unique and personal to your family. We believe a funeral service is not just another obligation, but rather a time of remembrance and love for those who have passed on. We also believe that a funeral should not be overpriced. Our goal is to provide the care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

The Power of Family

We are a third-generation of the Diehl family to serve the needs of your family. Our staff is ready to provide compassionate care and professional service into the next generation. A funeral service is an opportunity to celebrate the life lost, we make every effort to reflect the quality of that life. We understand the meaning of family, which is why we make it a priority to offer yours nothing but the best funeral services in Columbus. This includes a simplified package selection process, affordable prices, convenient location, and a warm atmosphere of our facility.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.

How Funeral Services Have Evolved In the Past 100 Years

Wed, 10 Jul 2019 04:00:00 GMT

Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Service has been serving the Columbus community as a family business for over 100 years, and we have continued to grow and evolve with modern times. Mr. Dollie Whittaker established Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Home in 1905, becoming an important business and social institution in the community. We are proudly the oldest African-American family owned and operated mortuary in the area, serving all people regardless of race and ethnicity. We have witnessed first hand how funeral services have evolved in the past 100 years and wanted to share a few insights.

From Sorrow to Celebration

Funeral services were often known as a religious tradition, expressing darkness and heartache. Over time, we have evolved from sorrow to celebration, where friends and family members use this as a time to celebrate the life . Although it is still natural to feel sadness and grief when losing a loved one, it’s important to rejoice in the life they lived and the impact they left on Earth. Not to mention, it is important to rejoice in that soul’s return home to the Lord.

Burial vs Cremation

When discussing funeral services 100 years ago, cremation was hardly a suggestion. Most Christian people were resistant to anything but a traditional casket burial . However, as time went on, more and more families have opted for cremation services opposed to burial. Not only is cremation an affordable service, but it allows family members to remember their loved one through creativity. The personalization options following a cremation are endless, making it an appealing choice to display ashes in a beautiful urn or handmade glass piece. Choose from beautiful styles of urns for placing in your home or consider cremation jewelry, allowing you to hold your loved one close.

Pre-Planning Your Funeral Was Not an Option

Pre-planning your funeral arrangements is a common idea shared among many people and funeral directors today. But, it wasn’t always this easy. Pre-planning was introduced in the early 1950’s and has since grown to be a popular option. Making arrangements for your own funeral puts you in charge of displays, and also saves your family from stress during the difficult time.

Learn more on how you can pre-plan your funeral service by completing our online form.

Obituaries

As technology continued to advance, so did we. 100 years ago you would often hear the death of a loved by word-of-mouth or obituary notices with basic information that were placed in the local grocery store. This eventually advanced to a newspaper column which gave information on the family and funeral service. Technology has made sharing obituary information easy, effortless, and more accessible. We keep our website updated with obituaries and funeral information, where some families choose to include the deceased’s hobbies or passion as opposed to basic information. These are often posted to social media where families and friends can spread the news.

While funeral services and traditions have evolved and changed over the past century, our family’s commitment to this community and the people in it hasn’t diminished at all. We remain dedicated to providing traditional funeral services and homegoing ceremonies of dignity and distinction to all of our neighbors and friends.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.

Hosting a Memorial Service for a Veteran

Wed, 10 Jul 2019 04:00:00 GMT

Personalizing a memorial service for a loved one who has passed is a touching way to celebrate the life that was lost. For those who have served our country, this is especially true. Whether your loved one served as a Marine, Navy Seal, Army, or Air force, they deserve the special honors for all of their sacrifice. When hosting a memorial service for a veteran, consider celebrating their life with what they will be remembered for. There are a number of ways you can incorporate their legacy into the memorial service.

Bury Them in Uniform

A respectful and honorable way to remember a veteran is to bury them in their uniform. This is a personal choice that should be discussed among close family members if not mentioned in the deceased will or wishes. Burying a veteran in their uniform represents the proudness of their profession.

Honor Their Sacrifices

Veteran’s have spent a great deal of their lives standing for our country, making sacrifices for this country and its people. Their everlasting contribution to their career should be remembered. Consider displaying their medals and awards during the memorial service. It’s perfectly appropriate to display their medals, uniforms, pictures and achievements for their time in service.

Hang the National Flag

When a veteran passes, the U.S. Department of Veteran Affairs will provide your family with a free flag in their honor. If interested, head to your local post office to complete a form. The flag can then be draped over the casket at the funeral service. When working with Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Services, we will ensure to assist you with personalizing the memorial service to complete all wishes.

If you are looking for ideas on celebrating the life your veteran lived, contact the friendly staff of Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Services . Our members will work closely with your family to ensure all wishes and needs are met, promising your veteran receives the caring send off they deserve.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford. Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.

The Importance of Finding a Qualified Grief Counselor

Wed, 10 Jul 2019 04:00:00 GMT

Coping with the loss of a loved one is never easy. We all experience different levels of grief, where some of us may prefer to seek professional help. Discussing your grief and sadness in a professional setting creates a safe place for you to openly talk about the deceased and the emotions you are experiencing. This may help you learn to cope in a healthy way and find hope that was lost.

Don’t let the challenge of finding help stop you from seeking treatment. There are many resources that are easily available to help you through this difficult time. The caregivers at Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Services have provided tips on finding a qualified grief counselor to help you get back on your feet.

Where Do You Find a Grief Counselor?

Your family doctor is a great place to start, as they may offer a list of referrals or suggestions for finding a grief specialist. Getting input from a doctor you already trust is a great push, and can even offer insight on helping you determine your needs from a grief counselor. It’s also important to get in touch with your health insurance company to learn which practices are covered by your insurance. Although it may feel scary, don’t hesitate to reach out to loved ones or organizations you’re involved with for recommendations. If you prefer to keep this private, turn to your laptop to research grief specialists near you.

Take Advantage of Online Tools

Reaching out for help can be a challenge for some. Grieving is a personal experience, where some may crave the privacy that comes with it. There are a number of online tools one can take advantage of when searching for a professional grief counselor.

Look for These Qualities in a Grief Counselor

It is completely normal for someone to visit various grief counselors until they find their fit. Consider checking online reviews to get an idea of their personality before setting a time to meet. If you don’t feel a good connection after the first couple sessions, it is always welcome to reach out to another professional to see if they suit your needs. When researching reviews and attending your first session, look for these qualities:

Don’t hesitate to reach out to the caregivers at Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Services for help. Our Funeral Directors can offer you a list of educational resources in regard to grief counseling and healing.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning forms.

What to Look for in a Funeral Home

Wed, 10 Jul 2019 04:00:00 GMT

A funeral home is a space where you should feel comfortable and at ease, especially while working closely with the funeral director. The first meeting with a funeral home should consist of asking questions, learning about the funeral services offered , understanding pricing, and gaining a sense of the atmosphere. Knowing what to look for in a funeral home will help you choose the best fit for your family, as it’s important to work with a funeral home that meets all of your needs and accommodations.

Ask Yourself: What Are the Requirements You Seek in a Funeral Home?

When starting to search for a funeral home, it’s suggested to make a list of requirements. This will help the selection process go smoothly. Some questions you should ask yourself are:

Hold a Meeting With the Funeral Director

After finding a funeral home you are interested in working with, take time to directly meet with the funeral director. This is an opportunity to learn more about the funeral home in regards to their history within the community and the services they offer. A professional funeral director should make you feel comfortable, express compassion, and offer you informed answers to the questions you may have. At no point should you feel pressured into making funeral arrangements that you feel uncomfortable with. At Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Services, we make it a top priority to ensure you feel welcome and comfortable with your choices.

Assess the Quality and Value of the Services for the Cost

Many of today’s funeral homes offer bait-and-switch prices in their marketing that make families think they can afford the funeral arrangements they have in mind, only to find out that the price quoted was lacking certain fundamentals like the casket or transportation service. They may also try to stack on a bunch of extra unnecessary services to pad the bill while your family is stunned with grief. These kinds of practices are rare in our industry, but you have to watch out for them because they do exist.

The philosophy at Diehl-Whittaker is to be honest, straightforward, and transparent about our services and prices. We offer some of the most competitive rates in the business, with lower mark-ups on caskets and complimentary services included in our base rates. That’s important when you’re a budget-conscious family dealing with a sudden loss. We’re here to help you make it work and have several options for financing, pre-planning, and cost effective savings.

Most importantly, a funeral service should provide the solace and dignity your family needs in this difficult time of loss and grief. The lowest price isn’t always the best choice when it comes to saying goodbye to a loved one.

Come visit the folks at Diehl-Whittaker , where you and your family are in good hands.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.

How to Choose a Casket for Your Loved One

Thu, 06 Jun 2019 04:00:00 GMT

An unexpected death can leave loved ones feeling confused and lost with direction. There are many funeral service options following a death, from burial packages to cremation plans. Holding a funeral service allows a chance for friends and family members to say one last goodbye, while rejoicing and celebrating the life lived.

A burial service with a tribute to honor the departed is a popular choice among family members. With a burial service can come a checklist of necessities such as choosing a beautiful casket, preparing photos and/or videos for remembrance, and selecting a type of flower arrangement. With so many casket options, you may be wondering how to choose a casket for your loved one. The casket serves as a final resting place for your loved one making it important to explore all options available.

Research Various Casket Styles

Caskets vary in size, material, price, and color. One should spend time researching an appropriate casket, as this is a very personal decision. The material used in constructing a casket determines the cost, with stainless steel being the most popular and economical choice. Other casket material options include:

At Diehl -Whittaker Funeral, we offer a stainless steel casket with up to 8 color pallets, depending on the burial package you have chosen.

Determine Your Funeral Budget

It is always recommended to work with a funeral home director to determine a budget when arranging a funeral. Being a family owned business, Diehl-Whittaker values offering affordable funeral service care. We will assist you in selecting the best burial package that suits your needs, and help you choose a casket that is appropriate for your family’s needs and budget. For those who prefer an alternative on pricing, perhaps consider our cremation services as this option is easier on the budget. A memorial service can still be arranged to honor the family member, and burials are still an option for cremation.

Browse Caskets in Person

Once you have determined your budget, take time to browse caskets in person. This allows you to view details and colors up-close to confirm you are making the right selection. Be sure the casket expresses high quality by feeling each item and asking questions along the way. Diehl-Whittaker offers a variety of caskets on display at our facility and we can direct you to a catalog if you don’t see the one you want. We’re here to help make the process easy for you and your family, so don’t hesitate to ask questions of our knowledgeable staff.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford. Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.

How Does Funeral Insurance Work?

Thu, 06 Jun 2019 04:00:00 GMT

It is wise to plan for the future in every aspect of life, including pre-planning your funeral . Pre-planning your funeral lifts a heavy weight off of family members and allows them to peacefully grieve with no stress or worries. We usually budget our retirement based on the needs of living, but what about money to wrap up affairs after we pass? If you have been considering pre-planning your funeral, you may be wondering if you should purchase funeral insurance. How does funeral insurance work?

What is Funeral Insurance?

Funeral insurance is simply a policy that is designed to assist in paying for all funeral expenses by setting aside funds. One benefit of signing up for funeral insurance is that it protects you from the rising cost of funeral expenses by locking in today’s prices.

This insurance policy protects family members from taking on the financial burden once their loved one has passed. Once your policy is paid in full, you are guaranteed it remains in affect your entire life. By making the decision to invest in funeral insurance, you are guaranteed that your entire estate will be available to your family rather than liquidated to cover expenses.

What does Funeral Insurance Cover?

Coverage of funeral insurance depends on the company and policy you decide to purchase. Pre-need insurance is another term for prepaid funeral insurance, which is purchased through a licensed agent through the funeral home of your choice. This allows you to work directly with the funeral home, making the decisions and choosing your preferred funeral style while paying it off over time.

Why Should I Invest in Funeral Insurance?

The most rewarding benefit of buying funeral insurance is simply to be prepared. You can live peacefully knowing your expenses are covered, while easing the burden off family members. At Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Services, we proudly work with those interested in pre-planning and budgeting their funeral services.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.

Ideas for Celebration of Life

Thu, 06 Jun 2019 04:00:00 GMT

Death is something we will all encounter at some point in our lifetime. Although we know it’s inevitable, going through the loss of a loved one is a difficult time. Some may dread the funeral service , focusing on sadness and grief while saying one last goodbye. At Diehl-Whittaker Funeral, we turn our focus to the celebration of life. We use this as a time to joyfully celebrate the achievements made in the person’s lifetime, honoring their values, and sharing memories with friends and family. Diehl-Whittaker Funeral has been hosting these Homegoings of Distinction for the Columbus community since 1905. Our caring staff will work with your family to offer ideas for your family’s celebration of life memorial service to give the dearly departed the tribute they truly deserve.

How Will You Honor the Deceased?

The main question when planning a celebration of life is determining who the event is for. Although this event revolves around honoring your loved one, it is also for friends and family of the deceased. When arranging a memorial service, make it a point to have the service reflect the individual. Allow their character and favorite hobbies to shine through. How will you honor the life of your loved one and celebrate who they were? The atmosphere of the celebration is completely up to your family. For those who crave a celebration of life that truly reflects the personality of the deceased, consider these ideas to use in their remembrance.

Do you have other ideas? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments on the very best ways to honor our departed loved ones with personalized celebrations of the person’s life and values.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford. Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.

Documentation to Have in Place Before Your Death

Thu, 06 Jun 2019 04:00:00 GMT

More and more individuals are making the decision to pre-plan their funeral . This lifts the stress and worry off of family members following the death and allows them to begin the grieving process peacefully. Pre-planning your funeral is the perfect opportunity to also gather documents needed before your death. Putting affairs in order typically requires the gathering of documents regarding financial, medical, and legal matters, plus any other important information needed to close out the deceased’s affairs. If documents are not gathered, family members are then left stressing and searching for the necessary documents themselves. Have these documentations in place before your death to ease the burden on your loved ones.

Necessary Documents

Having these necessary documents in place before death will save your family members a great deal of stress.

Helpful Documents

Although not essential, taking time to gather these helpful documents is also suggested.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.

Digital Life After Death : Handling a Loved One's Online Affairs

Tue, 07 May 2019 04:00:00 GMT

With technology becoming more ingrained in our lives, our digital identity is getting more and more important after death. Although managing the deceased's social media or a website may not seem as high a priority as bank accounts, they should still make the list. These profiles hold accessible memories and thoughts shared by the person before they passed, meaning these accounts may be highly valued for family members. However, everyone experiences grief differently and lingering social media profiles after death may bring too much sadness. Learning the steps to take with handling a loved one’s online affairs after they pass will help the process of grief.

Don’t Ignore Social Media

When a friend or family member dies, some may not wish to see their name pop up when scrolling through social media, such as a suggested friend or memory notification on Facebook. It can bring a level of sadness when trying to move on from grief. Discuss with your family the action you feel is necessary to come to an agreeance. Perhaps everyone agrees to not let the profiles sit abandoned and to take action on handling the accounts.

Check Each Platform’s Terms of Service

Each social media platform will have a website explaining their own rules for dealing with the account of someone who has passed. This allows you to explore options and make an executive decision as a family. For example, Facebook and Instagram will delete or memorialize an account upon filling out an online form, which simply requires you to submit a death certificate of the account holder. Accounts such as Twitter allow you to notify them that you wish an account to be deleted. Following the request, a member of Twitter will be in touch to ask for more information including a death certificate and your ID.

Respect Their Privacy

The most important step to follow after losing a loved one is respecting their privacy. Although they are no longer on Earth, they still deserve the humble privacy as if they were. This means in terms of logging into social media accounts, websites, and other relative platforms. If you make the decision to log into an account or website that is not yours, you could be violating more than their privacy, such as breaking the federal law when logging into an email account that is not yours. Unless you have gained permission before the death, it is important to follow this rule.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.

Personalizing a Memorial Service for your Family

Tue, 07 May 2019 04:00:00 GMT

Memorial services and funeral services serve a number of purposes. They give us a chance to say our goodbyes, while offering a place for friends and family to gather during this hard moment. We often think to follow death with mourning and grief. One is bound to feel sorrow for losing a loved one, but you can have a memorial funeral service that celebrates the person’s life rather than focusing on sadness. By holding a personalized memorial service for your family, you are remembering the beautiful life this person lived and memories they have shared.

Showing Your Love

Many families are now choosing to personalize their loved one’s funeral service to ensure the true essence of their life is able to shine through. The personal touches you add to the memorial funeral service will make the moment more special, and is a very touching way to express the love you hold for them. The memorial service is a time for everyone to express their affection and remember the life they of the deceased. Take advantage of personalizing a memorial service for the dearly departed soul. This may include playing their favorite hymns or songs in their honor, or reading from a script that reminds you of their purpose on Earth.

Create a Warm Environment

Include photos the whole family cherishes to create a warm environment during the funeral service. Playing a slideshow full of favorite memories is a great way to find joy in the past and know they are at peace, having lived a joyous life. Surrounding them with their favorite flowers and photos creates a memorable service where love and memories were shared.

A personalized memorial or funeral service is a great way to pay tribute to your loved one . Consider encouraging the rest of the family members to provide their inputs to create a truly special service, remembering the one you have lost.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford. Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning forms.

Losing Your Soulmate: Recovering from the Death of your Spouse

Tue, 07 May 2019 04:00:00 GMT

Whether the death is sudden or was following an illness, losing a spouse can be extremely devastating. Between a wave of emotions, lifestyle changes, and practical considerations that accompany death, you may feel overwhelmed about what lies ahead. Losing your soulmate is often a topic we choose to avoid, but learning the steps to recover from the death of your spouse should not be ignored.

Go Easy on Yourself

Everyone experiences grief differently, and there is no “right” way to feel after losing your spouse. A number of factors contribute to your reaction, including how happy you were together, how your spouse died, how old your children are, and how dependent you both were in the relationship. Often times we feel numb or shocked when we first hear the news. It is normal to feel guilt and anger during this time while reflecting on these variables, but remember to go easy on yourself.

Take Care of Your Physical Health

Grieving can take a toll on your body, as well as your emotions. You may have trouble sleeping or lack of appetite, leaving your body feeling drained with no energy. Although it is easier said than done, try to take care of yourself by eating nutritional food, going on walks, and getting enough sleep.

Seek Support

Coping with the loss of your partner can feel like a lonely time, and it is not unusual to feel the symptoms of depression. It’s common to close yourself off; however, chances are you will feel better confiding in friends, family, your pastor, or a licensed counselor. Joining a support group with others who are grieving may also provide the comfort you desire. Consider talking to your doctor or seeking therapy if you experience:

As hard as losing a spouse may be, it is possible to create a new and fulfilling life for yourself while still cherishing memories from the past. Take this time to honor the life they lived and feel blessed to have known their love.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning Assistance.

Homegoing : A Celebration of Life

Tue, 09 Apr 2019 04:00:00 GMT

Homegoing : A Celebration of Life

Homegoing is known to be a celebration of life , or a memorial in which friends and family celebrate their loved one going home to be with the Lord. It’s slightly unique compared to traditional funeral services, in that a homegoing service is spent rejoicing the life the person has lived, and remembering them for the positive impact they have left on each person they have met. It is an uplifting event celebrating the return of the soul to eternal glory, our original and forever Home. Homegoing is often held in a church or place of worship, and usually contains a combination of elements:

What to Expect During a Homegoing

Homegoing services often consist of choirs and singing the deceased’s favorite hymns and songs. A sermon is preached in addition to a eulogy or tribute, recognizing the beautiful memories shared with the dearly departed. Videos and slideshows are often played during the homegoing, allowing friends and family to view precious moments of the past. The tone of these services is meant to be uplifting, positive, loving, and spiritual, all of which is a salve to the grief the friends and family are experiencing.

Homegoing Service Programs

Homegoing service programs or funeral programs are important events when a loved one has passed. At Diehl-Whittaker Funeral, we want to help organize a tribute to honor the departed, focusing on their life and now being home with the Lord. This provides a chance for friends and family to celebrate the life that was lived and allow the healing process to begin. Speak with one of our caring funeral directors to arrange a Homegoing service for your loved one, and rejoice in their reunion with the Divine.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford. Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning forms.

The Benefits of Pre-Planning Funeral Services

Tue, 02 Apr 2019 04:00:00 GMT

The Benefits of Pre-Planning Funeral Services

Today, more people are recognizing that planning a funeral in advance of need demonstrates love and consideration toward their family members. It may be difficult for you to think about, but it is a thoughtful decision that reduces both the financial and emotional stress when death occurs. There are a number of benefits to pre-arranging your funeral service, such as relieving your family from the decision-making pressure at a time of anguish and confusion. This allows them to use this time to honor your love and life. At Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Services, we offer a funeral pre-planning service where you can discuss your needs and how we might fulfill them.

Why Pre-Plan a Funeral Service?

There are a few beneficial reasons to pre-planning your funeral. Some may feel the need to plan ahead due to no family members being capable of making the decisions. Others may hold definite preferences regarding the funeral service, such as the style of their casket and setup. Pre-planning a funeral brings the security of knowing there will be adequate funds to cover the funeral expenses. Most importantly, pre-arrangement guarantees that rational decisions can be made ahead of time without the usual urgencies when death takes place.

How Do I Pre-Plan My Funeral?

By pre-arranging, you and your family can discuss, in advance and without pressure, what type of funeral service best suits your personal wishes. When working with Diehl-Whittaker, we begin the process with an online form where you then choose which services you would like to learn more about. We can discuss funeral insurance, payment options, wills, veterans benefits, and more.

Funeral arrangements are a deeply personal choice. Pre-arranging eliminates second-guessing, and reduces the possibility of emotional family disagreements about what your preferences are. You will be assured that what you want will be carried out as planned.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford. Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning forms.

The Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Experience

Tue, 02 Apr 2019 04:00:00 GMT

The Diehl-Whittaker Funeral Experience

The family owned Diehl-Whittaker funeral firm has been serving the community of Columbus since 1905, making us the oldest African-American family owned and operated mortuary, serving all people, regardless of race or ethnicity. Within our community, the respect that is shown each family we serve has allowed us to establish a reputation of dignity and trust. We consider ourselves to be caregivers, as we assist in providing care for those who have passed on while tending to the family members who remain.

Burial Services

Dating back to the beginning of recorded history, societies have honored those who have passed with a traditional ceremony. This is a time to celebrate with loved ones and recognize the amazing life they have lived. At Diehl-Whittaker, we offer a number of burial packages to help you find the best fit. Our services include a simplified selection process, affordable package pricing, a convenient location, the warm comfortable atmosphere of our facility, and the latest in automotive equipment.

Cremation Services

We make it a priority to offer services accustomed to meet the needs of any wish. Cremation is increasingly selected option because it can be less expensive, and allows the memorial service to be held at a more convenient time in the future when relatives and friends can come together. This allows planning and out-of-town family to travel for the service appropriately. For families who choose cremation, yet desire a traditional funeral service, the decedent can be embalmed, dressed and placed in a rental casket for a traditional viewing and funeral service, then cremated after the service is complete.

Flower and Gift Shop

Funeral services can cause a wave of emotions. Being a family owned business, we understand the amount of stress planning a funeral can bring upon you. We make it a goal to offer support and care, ensuring your decedent is properly handled while helping you make arrangements. We offer a range of gifts to help comfort those who need it most, consisting of beautiful flowers, wreaths, vase arrangements, and more.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning forms.

Coping with the Unexpected Death of a Loved One

Tue, 02 Apr 2019 04:00:00 GMT

Coping with the Unexpected Death of a Loved One

Dealing with the loss of a loved one is an emotionally challenging time. Most of us feel shock and disbelief when we hear about the unexpected death of a friend or family member, leaving us unsure of what first steps to take. It’s important to work with a trusted, caring funeral service who makes it a priority to put your family’s grief and needs first. Coping with the unexpected death is hard and every person manages the sadness differently. It is normal for us to experience a different grieving process, where some may become depressed and closed off while others are still in shock.

Best Ways to Cope With Your Loss

In some cases, a person is unable to process the loss and may experience:

Although these are normal coping mechanisms, there are positive, healthy habits one can implement to work through the grief and life adjustment. Making it a point to maintain a healthy and well-based diet will do wonders for the body, mind, and soul during this time. It’s important to nourish your body despite your sadness, ensuring you are still taking care of yourself.

Expressing your grief may help you deal with it in a better way. Now is the perfect time to reach out to close friends and relatives to discuss thoughts or feelings. Vulnerability can be a challenge, but helps you grow through this difficult time. If the death has lead towards a physical ailment, visit your doctor to discuss options on how to help. Perhaps the best coping method is to spend time with the company of loved ones. This will give you comfort, and surrounds your soul with love and care from those you are close with.

If you feel that you are unable to discuss your feelings with family and friends, perhaps consider reaching out for help of a professional counselor. Speaking to someone who is unrelated to you may help you get over the anxiety and distress you’re feeling.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning forms.

How to Talk to Children about Death

Fri, 28 Jul 2017 04:00:00 GMT

Experiencing the loss of a loved one presents a variety of challenges which may be hard to process. If you are concerned about discussing death with your children, you are not alone. Death can be a difficult topic to talk about, particularly with a child. As much as we would like to shield children from the fact that all lives will come to an end, we must learn it is acceptable to have these emotional conversations. Children will express their grief in different ways. How kids cope depends on their age, relationship with the deceased, and the support they are offered. We never want to imagine the day we lose a family member or friend, but learning how to talk to children about death will prepare your family for the best.

When talking to your child about death, use simple, clear words.

It is important to be clear and direct, as this can be a confusing time for a child. Approaching your child in a caring way and being honest with the death gives the child a chance to take in the news with no confusion.

Listen and comfort.

Every child reacts differently when learning a loved one has passed. They may cry, ask questions, be curious, or become quiet. Some children may not understand how to react, making it crucial to show support and comfort. Offering reassurance and answering questions truthfully will help the child come to terms with the idea of death.

Teach them to put their emotions into words.

Kids may become quiet after the initial conversation, as they may not be aware of how to put their emotions into words. Encouraging them to say what they are thinking and feeling in the days and weeks following the loss will provide a better understanding. Talking about your own feelings shows them that vulnerability is accepted and comfortable.

Be open about funeral arrangements and celebrating the loved one’s life.

Exposing children to viewings, funerals, or memorial services will teach them the process of honoring a life. Explaining the funeral service ahead of time will prepare them with expectations. For example, tell them people who loved the person will be there to sing, pray, and offer condolences to the family.

Help your child remember the person and the life they lived.

Although death is a sad, emotional journey, now is the time to teach a child about celebration of life . Take this moment to recognize the love they offered and lives that were positively impacted. Following the funeral service, encourage your child to remember the person by recalling their favorite memories with them. Their love will last years beyond their life.

Diehl-Whittaker is a funeral service in Columbus, Ohio who makes every effort to reflect the quality of your loved one’s life.

The care your family deserves, at a cost your family can afford.

Contact us today for burial packages, cremation packages, and pre-planning assistance.